Here's a few details that I've updated on the first post.
I'll get around to writing about the intake and ECU later, there's a lot of info there to digest and its still a work in progress
Safe to say its something people have been saying but never bothered to try out

I found a lot of helpfull info from US 8th gen civic forum
Those guys are great! They've been doing a lot of R&D on our generation of civics
JDM FD2R RRC Intake Manifold + Spoon 70mm Venturi TB
Yep, it all fits. Thankfully, there's enough space in the FN2 engine bay to fit the JDM manifold, unlike the EP3 where you need to cut the radiator support. Its still a very tight fit though. The Throttlebody plugs in with no modification, and runs fine with the stock ECU. If you do decide to change to RBC/RRB/RRC manifold on stock ECU, I noticed my idle did become slightly more eratic especially with the A/C on.
One close look at the FN2 manifold and it would seem Honda had to compromise for our smaller engine bay. Our RSP manifold has longer runners that curl down into the plenum chamber similar to DC5/EP3 PRB/PRC manifolds. It was probably designed to give the FN2 more low down torque for day to day use.
After the swap, I can't say I felt any loss of low down torque, the engine seems to rev smoother. Performance wise, theres definitely a noticable gain up top, this is probably due to the short runner design of the JDM manifold.
B106 Carbon Fiber Race Battery

If you're thinking why would anyone spend $300 on a battery that has lower capacity and can't run 11 subwoofers, then you're looking at this from the wrong angle. What other weightsaving measure would lose you 12-13Kg from over the front axle for $300? no Dry Carbon panel will do that, and certainly none is as easy to install. I drive the car some 60Km per day for work, and where I live it doesn't get that cold during winter, so I don't have to worry about the battery going flat. As a plus point this opens up a lot of space in the engine bay to mount other things.
P2R Power Package

Basically this is a:
Thermal Intake Manifold Gasket
Thermal Throttle body gasket
Throttle Body spacer
Throttle Body coolant bypass
The Intake Manifold gasket is a lot of work to put on for questionable gain but since I was changing it anyway decided to put it on. The spacer and TB gasket was just a bonus that came with the package.
Throttle plate freezing is never going to be a problem where I live, so I bypassed the coolant line going to the TB as well. Results is actually noticable to the touch. After a hard drive (with plenty of airflow) the intake manifold is cool enough to hold, the TB stay pretty much room temperature.
Custom 2.5" Mandrel Bend Exhaust

It may not look like much but atleast it performs, my exhaust is really just a stop gap untill a decent aftermarket one comes up.
I don't think its particularly hard to make an exhaust that makes decent power gain. Just make a straight 2.5" mandrel bends with no mufflers and resonators and I gurantee it'll make power. The challenge is to make an exhaust that does all that but sounds nice, and not too loud. Not worrying about these 2 points, I just choose a straight through muffler and got piping made for it. Loud as hell, but atleast the gain is there.
Ingalls Engineering Power Stick

Basically replaces the dog bone engine mount on the driver side with a solid mount. Helps with removing engine flex, especially wheel hop during hard launches. In the DC5/EP3 engine movement used to crack headers/exhaust and destroy engine mounts. Thought this would help a bit. It does help with wheel hop, slight downside is theres slight vibrations in steering wheel and pedals. Also engine noise is slightly louder. Still nowhere near as bad as a full solid engine mount though.
Whats next?
I'm still waiting on headers, probably the last piece of the puzzle.
DC5 and FG2 headers dont fit the FN2 The lengths are slightly different, and the angle of the cat is completely different.